On January 21, 2017 I participated in my first Women’s March and it changed my life.
Something changed in me that morning, I had decided 30 minutes before leaving that I was going and if I had to go alone it didn’t matter. I felt obligated to take part in something so much greater than me. Now if I’m completely honest I had never been the person to go to protests or marches but something told me that I had to do this one, and I’m so glad that I did.
As someone who is usually an anxious wreck with huge crowds of people I’ve never felt as safe as I did by myself that day. I knew I was safe and I knew that if need be every person in this crowd was a genuinely good person. How could I possibly know that? I don’t even know…but I did. I made friends with people I would have never met if it weren’t for this march.
To be completely honest I found myself emotionally shook so many times throughout the march, when such inspirational speakers spoke words of hope and anger, I was overtaken by what felt like enormous feelings that made my chest heavy and my eyes tear. I have never felt so inspired, inspired to do great things, inspired to believe in myself and my peers with everything I have. I was and still am overwhelmingly proud of the city I call home. There was a point in the march where only men were chanting the words “her body, her choice” and that fixed something in me. I knew what I was doing was right, I knew that the thing that was pulling me to participate was a need to get to know the real type of people that live in my city, and I am now aware of the THOUSANDS of legitimately great people that inhabit Los Angeles and surrounding areas.
In a time when we’re at the forefront of what seems like a revolution I need to know that I was involved, I need to fight for the kids I work with and the women who fought for me. I don’t want to let this opportunity slip, I can’t. I can’t sit by idly while human rights are being stolen and our new administration fuck up my country, I CAN’T. I sort of crave being around people who care about real shit. Fuck reality tv, fuck celebrity drama, fuck trump, I’m not here that, I’m here to try and make life even a fraction easier for the future generations who are growing up with a bullshit celebrity for a president. At work election time was stressful, not on me but on the children I worked with. They didn’t know what to expect and they were terrified. They didn’t know if their families were going to be kicked out of the country and they cried, how could they not? Their future president was on tv making all these promises that were going to affect them, he was being cruel, he was name calling, he was doing all the things we (educators) have always taught them not to do. As if they aren’t stressed enough.
I saw the Women’s March as a chance to do my part, even if it’s just showing up and walking. Women’s Rights are human rights. Black rights are human rights. Muslim rights are human rights. LGBTQ Rights are human rights. Immigrant rights are human rights. You don’t have to agree with me but let me ask you this, if there were never any protesters/ marchers do you think you’d have all the rights you do today? If those people that marched in the late 50’s early 60’s didn’t march where do you think we’d be today as a country? The human race needs to take care of each other not limit each other. We need to consistently work together to make things better, and no it’s not going to happen overnight but why not help it happen faster?
I applaud every single person in the world that marched on January 21, 2017. We need to be better, we need to do better and the only way we can do that is if we work together for each other. I applaud the parents that took their children, I applaud the men that stood up for women, I applaud the city council member and celebrities that use their voice for good, and applaud the women, who even in the midst of having our human rights jeopardized marched with their heads held high and their signs held even higher. This is only the beginning, the work has just started and I’m ready and willing and I applaud the rest who are as well.